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Top 7 Signs of Self-Sabotaging Behaviour
Having trouble reaching all your goals? Are you going for what you want, but feeling like something is road-blocking the way? Are you finding yourself “not” doing some of the things you know you should be doing? You may be a victim of sabotage—self-sabotage. How do you know, and what can you do about it? Read on and see. 1. Focusing on what is not working, not right or missing from your life. Problem: Notice how often you speak about and think about what is not working, not right, or missi...
Read moreYour Mind creates Your World
One of the most amazing discoveries from quantum physics is that the world we live in is not as solid and definite as we have been led to think. For over 300 years, classical physics as taught by Sir Isaac Newton and subsequent scientists have convinced us that the world we live in is a distinct entity that is separate and free from our presence and influence. This dis-empowering view has man questioning his purpose in life. However, in recent years, experimental results from quantum physics hav...
Read moreThe Psyche of Doomsday Prediction: Why are so many attracted to it?
As I am writing this article, it is almost 8pm over here in Kuala Lumpur on 21 December 2012, the last day of the Mayan calendar, and supposedly the day the world ends. The day is almost over for us here, and very likely it will end as normal as before. Have you been stocking up food stuff at home, ...
Read moreBefriending Your Emotional Pain
Mary-Beth came to see me one evening complaining of backache which has been troubling her for several months. There was no injury or fall. The pain just seems to appear out of the blue. A physical examination did not reveal any physical signs. After a couple of attempts to treat her symptomatically, the pain remains. She was eventually referred to a specialist but despite extensive investigations, no physical abnormality was found. When she came back to see me for further review one afternoon, w...
Read moreReviewing 2012 Resolution: Stop Criticizing Others
Almost a year ago, I made a new year resolution to stop criticizing others, or at the very least, to reduce my habitual tendency to criticize others. Now is a good time to look back and examine the outcome. Criticizing others is a habit that seems to come naturally for most of us, if not all of us....
Read moreHow to Cultivate a Spiritual Relationship

What is a spiritual relationship? A relationship is how we relate to other. A spiritual relationship is a relationship that aims for the highest good for those in the relationship. It is one that facilitates our spiritual growth. Here are some tips on how to cultivate a spiritual relationship with another. Share this: TimDr. Tim [...]
How to Forgive Yourself

In one of the personal transformation workshops that I conducted, one of the participants asked, “How do you forgive yourself?”Such a simple and straightforward question, yet the ramifications are immense. The question does not just say, “Teach me how to forgive myself” but also suggests that “I do not know how to forgive myself” or [...]
2012 New Year Resolution
With the coming of the new year comes the many new year resolutions. It is that time of the year when we feel it is a good time to make changes to our lives, yet many new year resolutions come and go without much, if any, effective change at the end of that year. Rather [...]
How to Find Peace in the midst of Chaos

The world we live in today is in chaos. Greed and hatred are seen manifesting everywhere. People are living in fear, feeling a great sense of insecurity and frustration. Government and financial systems are falling apart. Nothing seems to be working. In a world where chaos seems to reign, is there any hope of finding [...]
A Look at the Principle of Mutuality

The Principle of Mutuality is a universal principle that says that every interaction we have with another is based on mutual agreement. By this, we mean that the interaction must be fair and beneficial to both parties. Only in this way can the interaction become truly meaningful and healthy. The acceptance of this principle is [...]
5 Ways to Deal with Conflicts

Conflicts are bound to arise in our relationships from time to time. Very often, conflicts arise from simple mis-communication. At other times, conflicts are due to clashes of personalities. Each of us deals with conflicts differently. There are at least 5 ways in which we can deal with conflicts, but not all of them lead to desirable outcomes. Can you [...]







